The sauce should have the appearance of a pasta sauce. You can make it ahead of time to this step.
Take 2-3 of the shrimp and roughly mince. Set aside.
Heat the oil in a skillet over a medium-high flame. Add the garlic. When it starts to color, add the shallots, celery, and peppers. Sprinkle with salt. Cook 1 minute then turn the heat down to medium. Cook partially covered until they are soft but not colored, about 10 minutes.
Bring the heat up to medium-high. Stir in the paprika and the sugar. Cook one minute then add the tomato paste. When it starts to caramelise, add the tomatoes and chopped shrimp. Mix well. Cook one minute.
Add 1 cup of stock. Bring to a boil and turn the heat down to medium. Cook until the sauce thickens, about 10 minutes. If it looks dry, add the remaining stock a little at a time. The sauce should have the appearance of a pasta sauce. You can make it ahead of time to this step.
Add the shrimp and cook until just pink. Serve immediately
In a heavy pot, bring the milk, the water and a pinch of salt to a low boil over a medium flame. When it is boiling, gradually pour in the grits in a thin steady stream, stirring as you go to stop lumps from forming.
When all the grits are in the pot, keep stirring until it starts to thicken. About 5 minutes. Lower the heat to medium-low. Cook for 20 minutes stirring frequently. Beat in the grated cheese and butter until melted into the grits, about 5 minutes. Taste for salt. Serve immediately
Ann's tips:
If you don't like spicy food use sweet smoked paprika, and leave out the cayenne.
4 servings